Love is an Action Word

We have all heard it said that it is the thought that counts. In some ways this is true, our thoughts do have a powerful effect on our reality. But in relationships this is a false statement. In relationships thoughts need to be put into action for people to know how we feel. Here are some simple ways to turn your loving thoughts into loving actions.
1. When someone crosses your mind and you think of them fondly use one of the many modes of communication at our disposal. Voicemail, Text, Facebook, IM, or Twitter a quick "just thinking about you" or "I love you" note. It is so easy!
2. When you think of something you could do with your spouse, child or friend put it on your schedule. Block out time for a walk, make a reservation for dinner, schedule a cup of coffee.
3. Say yes to spontaneous ideas and create memories that last a lifetime. The next time the kids are in their jammies and ready for bed, get them in the car and take a surprise adventure to the ice cream shop or build a fort and read stories. All it takes is a little extra time to make a lifetime memory of love.
4. Make a remember list. When a great gift idea for your son comes to mind or your spouse talks about a new book they would like write it on your to do list. Turning other people's desires into reality let's them know you really care.
These are just a few ways you can make your thoughts genuinely count toward building more intimate and loving relationships. So when that thought runs through your mind today turn it into an action!